Going home…..

I just wanted to document some thoughts on how I am feeling today about going “home”. I have had people ask me how I’m feeling about going back for so long? Am I afraid I will not want to come back to Costa Rica? Will it be hard living out of suitcases for a month? Will it be hard to try to see everyone I want to see?

As for how long will be gone… It will be about a month. We will be traveling between Nashville, Paragould, Searcy and Memphis. I’m not really afraid about not wanting to come back to Costa Rica because where my husband and children are is where my home is. And at this point in our lives we need to be in Costa Rica. I think after living out of suitcases for a month we will be glad to be back in our own home.

I am a little bit anxious about trying to see everyone that we want to see and do everything we want to do in that time. People are busy and traveling as well so making definite plans can be difficult. I’m hoping to just be able to spend some time relaxing and appreciating all of the things that I took for granted before.

I imagine some long walks through target and visits to Chick-fil-A and our favorite restaurant OEC in Bartlett. I imagine all of the laughter that will be heard with all the cousins getting to see each other again. I imagine playing a lot of cards at the Cochran Christmas in Searcy.

I’m not looking forward to saying goodbye to friends and family again but at least I know that we are doing better than expected here and the kids are really thriving in school in Costa Rica. I have made some wonderful friends here and I will miss them and be ready to be reunited again. The kids and I are about to get on a plane so goodby for now!

Twin day

I’m feeling overwhelmingly thankful this morning. When my children announced that they would be having “twin day” at school about a month ago it made me very anxious. Our kids are obviously new at school and there are a lot of other children with very established friendships. I was afraid my children would have no one to twin with. Very quickly after the announcement I knew I didn’t have to worry about the girls because their best little friends we’re already making plans with them on what they were going to wear. Benson was a different story. He never would tell me if he had made plans with anybody. He has several good friends at the school but had not really talked about a best friend.

I try to let my children handle these kinds of things by themselves but yesterday I started getting a little nervous for Benson because I could tell he was feeling left out. I asked him what his plans were and he told me that he’d talked to a friend of his about matching but he was out of town and wasn’t sure if he was going to make it in time or if he even remembered their conversation. I just had to let it go and let him deal with it. I also had to remember that boys are very different from girls and don’t need to discuss at length every little detail of what they’re going to wear. Yesterday he came out of school with a big smile on his face saying that Nolan was back in town and they had talked about what they were going to wear. Now, it was basically just a color scheme but he knew he would have someone to match with today.

I do realize that this sounds very trivial but when you move your kids to a different country, away from friends and family, there’s already so many things that they have to deal with and feeling left out is not something I wanted them to have to feel this week. We have been blessed with some really good kids that have made my kids feel very welcome and today was no exception. I don’t know why I was even worried about it to begin with. Benson and Nolan. Sloane’s friend, Regina, borrowed Blake’s shirt. It worked out perfectly! Blake’s friend, Mariana, actually bough Blake an outfit to match her!

Sloane’s teacher sent me this picture.

Uncle BJ’s visit

Couple of weeks ago uncle BJ, Nathan’s youngest brother, came to visit.  The kids have been excited about this visit for a long time.  For him this was more of a leisurely vacation because he travels all over the world and does all kinds of cool things.  He mainly wanted to see the country, try the food, and go to a fútbol  game.  We did all those things and even used him as a babysitter a few times to take kids to doctors appointments.Sloane perfected her sign to greet visitors at the airport.

One of the big hits for the week was playing blackjack using Halloween candy to bet with. Our new favorite restaurant is La Tortilleria. We went twice that week! 😋BJ and I got to do the Britt coffee tour and acted as taste testers. He really enjoyed the “typical food” In the evenings the kids took him to the soccer field in the neighborhood I took BJ on a hike called Tres Cruces or three crosses. It is a pretty steep hike with three different crosses as landmarks. Unfortunately, we only made it up to the first one because it was so muddy. I will try this again in the dry season. There was a beautiful view of the city the whole way. We even got to see a Christmas 🎄 farm. Nathan was able to take a day off and we visited the Poas volcano. This volcano has been closed to visitors for 17 months because of volcanic activity. It was beautiful. The smell of sulfur was very strong and it was a little daunting. It was at least 10 degrees cooler up there as well. One of Nathan’s coworker’s took them to a local fútbol game. On our last couple of days we all went to Manuel Antonio and surfed. This has become something we all enjoy to do as a family and we wanted BJ to be a part of it. The water was crazy that day but we still had a great time.We hope he will come back and visit soon!

Humidity

So my sister-in-law just reminded me that I need to document The issues were having with humidity….

So, a lot of people ask us about the weather here. We are super happy because it is so nice. The kids can play outside every day without being too hot or too cold. We even tell people that we love the fact that the humidity is nothing like what we experience in Memphis. One thing we did not think about was the humidity in the house😏😩 One day I was just looking through the closet to see if anything needed to be ironed and discovered thisEvery pair of Nathan’s dress pants was covered in mildew and most of my clothes were as well. Luckily, I was able to soak them in vinegar and baking soda and it came out.

I messaged a few friends here and they told me that this is normal for rainy season. Unfortunately, rainy season is most of the year here so it is something I’m going to have to learn how to deal with. I quickly got recommendations for how to handle it. . A trip to Walmart later I came back with a dehumidifier, dehumidifying bags and buckets for soaking up water. I am not being dramatic when I say these bags will fill up in a week.This dehumidifier holds 2 L of water and I have to change it out about every 3-4 days! This is something I really have to stay on top of. Our clothes still smell a little sour so I still need to figure that one out😩 so if anyone has any suggestions I’m happy to hear them!

Making ourselves at home…

I’ve noticed lately that I’m using the word “home” more often. I found myself the first few months always saying “at the house” or just not calling it anything at all. While Memphis is still home, I am starting to see the place where we reside here in Costa Rica as home now also.

We are really loving our school and our neighborhood. There is so much to do to keep us busy and active and we are really enjoying the beauty around us. Our church family is becoming a real FAMILY and we are starting to really know our way around. In fact, Nathan was able to drive to and from church this Sunday without using the navigation at all.  That may not mean much to just anyone but if he had visited us then you will understand😆

We were able to have our church family over in September.

we enjoy a yoga class on Wednesday evenings in the club house. The girls are working on their headstands. We are still all taking Spanish classes and although it is coming very slowly I am noticing the kids are communicating a lot better with people in Spanish. In fact, Benson was able to call the security guards the other night and have them turn the lights on at the soccer field!! All in Spanish! I was so proud. He is definitely the most confident of all of us! This is the Arenal volcano. We have now visited 3 volcanoes here in Costa Rica. Nathan has celebrated a birthday and Sloane made the cake all by herself. ( btw I had just hit a parked car in the parking lot right before the picture above😏)We are now officially temporary residents of Costa Rica. This is great because now we are able to leave the country and not worry about coming back here.

The kids were able to have student-led conferences at school. It was a great experience. Our neighborhood celebrated Halloween and the kids had a great time. We get to see all kinds of interesting things around here and this is just one example. Sloane and her friends almost got to see a cow give birth during recess one day. Sloane’s teacher asked her to decorate the classroom with positive sayings. She worked really hard and her friend Regina helped her hang them up.

This is a picture from a lunch we were invited to last Sunday after church. I honestly felt like I was with Family. This is a great group of people! I am looking forward to getting to know them even better.

I hate to jinx it but the kids seem to be getting closer through this experience. They still fight and scream at each other but the bonds that they are forming are strong and I am so grateful. Our puppy Blue has even made a friend:) we are thankful to Diego and Katherine for watching him when we go out of town and as a bonus he gets to play with Brownie My girls and their friend Mia. Blake in her soccer uniform The kids on UN day at school. They got to wear clothes to represent heir home. And Benson got to play his trumpet in the band for the first time.

We are almost 6 months in to this adventure and I’m feeling very positive. I remember the first month that we were here I was doing a mental countdown to when we were going to move back home. And the hard part of that is we don’t even know when that will be so I just had an imaginary number of weeks in my head. I don’t find myself doing that anymore. Progress!

On December 14 the kids and I will leave for a month to go back to The States. We are beyond excited and are making plans to try and see our loved ones.

¡Yo Amo Costa Rica!

So, I wanted to follow up on my whiney post by documenting all the things I love about living here in Costa Rica. And these are in no particular order😊

•The sunsets

The picture above the depicts almost every evening here in Costa Rica. Right now at the height of rainy season we don’t get to see it as much but I’m trying not to take it for granted.

•The early morning sunshine

One thing we are really enjoying is how the sun comes up very early. It makes us wake up much more naturally. There are also usually birds chirping. It’s very picturesque. The only downside to that is that the sun goes down very early which makes me ready for bed very early but not necessarily my children.

•The food

I can’t say enough about the food here. A few of our favorites are chi frijol, patacones, empanadas, picadillo, and Gallo Pinto, and our favorite ice cream place…pops! •The people

Costa Rican’s are very helpful and friendly. From waiters and waitresses to people in line behind me in the grocery store. There is almost always someone around who can speak English to help me out. I can’t count how many times I have been in the grocery store and not been able to communicate with a cashier and someone comes out of nowhere to help me.

During our first month here The kids and I were at Office Depot (yes it’s just like ours at home) making copies of some Spanish books and I was having the hardest time trying to communicate with the attendant. A lady came out of nowhere and asked me if I needed help. Of course, I did and she was able to relay what I was needing. Afterwards, the kids and I went to the back of the store to sit and wait and she came and found us and gave me her phone number. She told me if I ever needed any help translating to message her. She also invited me to an English-speaking church where she worked.

•The weather

Coming from Memphis this summer, the weather here was such a treat! People here would ask us if we were SO HOT and we would laugh and say we wouldn’t even get to be outside if we were in Memphis. We wouldn’t be able to breathe! The days can get pretty warm (but only about 80 degrees fehrenheit) but the humidity is completely different. The evenings are nice and cool. Very refreshing. One thing that is very different is the humidity in the house. There is no central air our clothes always feel wet and smell musty. I still need to work on figuring out a solution for that.

•The work ethic

The Picture above is of a man carrying at least two sheets of plywood on his back while walking down the street. I can’t say that I’ve ever seen that before. I know personally I would’ve felt like I had to have a truck to do something like that. There is a can-do attitude here. I know in our neighborhood they construction workers start at six and work through rain and wind until they are done at 4:30. When you go to restaurants or the grocery store you always see the same people working, every day, all day. Our security guards walk for miles to get to bus stops to get to and from work. And they always have a smile and a buenos dias, tardes or noches for us when we see them.

• Last but not least is the personal medical care from the kids doctors

This is the kids dentist. Benson has had to have several teeth pulled since we’ve been here and she has been awesome! She makes the kids all balloon animals before we leave and sits and talks very kindly to Benson while rubbing his head before and after she pulls his teeth.

We are also starting orthodontics with the kids while we’re here and the orthodontist was awesome too!

Our pediatrician here has also been very caring. He messages me personally to check on the kids the day after we come in and doesn’t mind if I call or message him if I have questions in between visits. That is very different for us also.

Overall things are going very well for us here. It is very different and every day still brings challenges but we’ve been very blessed with people around us and people praying for us back home.

Nana’s Visit

Last week Nathan’s mom came to visit us. We had all been looking forward to this for a while. It was fall break for her so it was the perfect time to visit. We didn’t have a lot of stuff planned to do because she really just wanted to be a part of our daily lives.

Sloane said she got tired of making new signs when people visit so she decided to make one awesome one that she can use every time someone visits. I made a Costa Rican dinner of picadillo, lizano beans and gallo pinto. After we visited for a while we had to break into the suitcases for our “goodies” from amazon and from Nana. I ordered the kids Halloween costumes ahead of time so they were excited to see them.

Sunday morning we went to church and we got to introduce Nana to our new church family. She, like my parents, felt so much better about us being here after being at the church. Early in the week we went to Nathans office and met some of his coworkers. We did some cleaning and rode bikes for exercise. I showed her the grocery store and our equivalent of sams. We worked on a few projects . And disposed of a poor bird that had run into one of our windows and inadvertently killed himself. One of her last days here we got to take her to our favorite local place, La Paz. We feel like it is a great way to take on Costa Rica in one day. There is so much to see there. One of our favorite things to do while Nana was here was to play cards. We had some great nerts tournaments! We enjoyed introducing her to the local foods here. The picture below is at one of our favorite restaurants. There we introduced her to chifrijo and patacones. Unfortunately our week had to come to an end but at least we know we will see her again in 2 months!!